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Friday, November 26, 2010

Be Like Jerry Rice

The best way to achieve a strong level of personal net worth is to build it over a long period of time by paying attention to yearly successes.  If in a year you earn $100 (after tax), spend $75 of it, see your investments grow by $5, and don’t borrow any money, then you “make” $30 and your personal net worth will  jump up by that same amount.  Add-up 45 years of doing that and you’ll have accumulated something significant!

And the only way to do that is to recognize that long-term success comes from the aggregated results of paying attention to small-detail habits.  The most successful athletes are habit-focused, as are the best teachers, as are the best parents, as are the most financially secure families.   Jerry Rice was the best wide receiver in football not because he focused on being a good receiver, but because he focused on habits like how to plant his feet, how to move his hands, how to shift his hips.  His famous workout regimen focused exclusively on small skill drills that he repeated over and over and over until he became the best at his position.  There are lessons and good news in that!

If you are having a hard time figuring out how you are going to save enough for ________________(retirement, college, vacation, debt reduction), focus daily on the habits that will support that longer-term goal.  If you want to buy a house in 5 years, practice using only cash to make purchases instead of your credit card, practice removing money from your paycheck and putting it in savings, practice cutting back on things you buy but don’t really value.  Become the Jerry Rice of your finances by focusing and religiously practicing the financial habits that will then lead you to become financially successful.

The good news in this is that it is much easier to decide on a daily basis what to do with your money than it is to try and tackle a five-year plan all at once.  Figuring out how to come up with a down payment on a house is hard.  Figuring out that you should not buy the latte with your VISA card is not.  Most of us can start small and it is how most of the wonderful things in life are built – small details now, big results later.

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

I Am Thankful For These Things (And More)

The 26 years I’ve known and loved my wife | My two amazing daughters | My parents, sister, and my sister’s family | My in-laws and my nieces and nephews | My friends, many of whom are as close as family | My church | Being born in the U.S. | Having the freedom to own my own business and work as I believe | Being healthy | Having so much of everything that I take for granted how simple my survival is | Having the experiences of international travel | Access to education | Clean water | Men and women who volunteer for service and sacrifice in our armed forces | Music | The invention of football | Comedy| The luck and wisdom of our Founding Fathers | Sunshine | Washington, Montana, and all places naturally beautiful | The fact that most people would trade for my “problems” in a heartbeat | You reading my blog.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Does Too Much "Tomorrow" Hinder Happiness Today?

I heard a radio commercial this morning for a large mutual fund company who staff in-house representatives to help clients develop financial plans.  I won’t quote the tagline but it sounded very similar to virtually every other financial planning firm extolling their prowess at helping clients achieve future financial goals.  Basically, the ad focused on how great your future could be if you use their goal-focused planning. 

I do something similar for a living and I won’t knock the value of long-range planning or criticize peers for advertising long-range planning services.  But I’m going to pick on one element of my industry that I don’t like.  One of the easiest ways to do this job is to present a proposal for a 25-year investment plan, charge an annual asset-management fee, send quarterly newsletters, monitor progress on an annual basis, send more newsletters, and have absolutely no accountability for the quality of the plan until 25 years has gone by!  I have rubbed elbows with financial advisors who have made careers writing and managing long-term plans with no focus whatsoever on helping someone with their current financial situation, their current level of happiness, or their current pursuit of positive life experiences

A predictor of your future financial happiness is not how well your current investments are tracking against the plan someone wrote 10 years ago (where they probably assumed an annual investment return of 10% - look up one of your old financial plans to see what I mean!).  Instead, a better predictor of your future financial happiness is your happiness today and the financial habits you are creating today that specifically target how you want to live

There are too many people who get done with their 25-year investment plan only to say how surprised they are that things didn’t work out as they thought they would.  There are too many people who sacrificed their money, time, and emotional happiness for decades all for the belief that retirement was going to be awesome, only to die or get sick not long after quitting work.  There are too many people who find no added joy in retirement because they never made it a habit of pursuing joy before they retired.

The solution is not to stop long-range planning.  The solution is to be sure that you somehow tie your long-term goals to immediate behaviors and accomplishments which support a happier, more intentional way of living.  Like most things in life, if you are always planning and not currently pursuing and experiencing, you’re not likely to ever realize any of the things you want in the future.

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Sharing (More) Blessings Thru Finance & Economy

In September I posted on the powerful impact we can have by making small loans (for as little as $25 through www.kiva.org ) to entrepreneurs around the planet (http://wallfinancial.blogspot.com/2010/09/sharing-our-blessings-thru-finance.html ).  Did you know that 2.1 billion people live on less than $2 per day?  If that was you, how would you help yourself fight your way out of poverty?  How would you start your own small business?  How would you buy seed to start a farm? 

Those of us with access to a working financial infrastructure can help those who don’t via microlending.  So on the same day as that blog post we helped lend money to a woman in the Philippines who ran a general store which generated about $115 worth of month income for her family.  Since that date, the woman in the Philippines to whom we loaned money has already repaid 41% of the money lent to her!  This is ahead of the debt repayment schedule she committed to through Kiva, by the way, and a lot faster than most of us could repay our business loans!

With the money repaid from Magdalena I reinvested it in two more loans to two different entrepreneurs: 

Rose Wanjiru Njuguna who lives in  Kenol-Muranga, Kenya

Rose is 50 years old and married to James Njuguna.  She and James have three children. She has been running her shop for 16 years with an income of Kshs 11,500 per month (that works out to about $4.80 of income per day). She has a good history with KADET and is applying for her third loan which she intends to use to buy stock of flour, bar soaps, and liquid detergent to sell. She hopes to buy a piece of land for the family.





This group is called “Sol y Estrellas” (Sun and Stars).  The group is located in Toluca, Estado de México, Mexico

Yolanda González is a member of this group. She is 40 years old and has a sixth grade education. Yolanda works as a merchant and has four children, two daughters and two sons. She has a grocery store that she started seven years ago. Yolanda is requesting a loan to restock her store with more merchandise. Her customers include neighbors and acquaintances from the same community since it is the only store in the area. She wants to use the funds to increase her sales. In addition, she hopes to help her children do well in school and continue their studies.

About Group Loans

In a group loan, each member of the group receives an individual loan but is part of a group of individuals bound by a group guarantee. Under this arrangement, each member of the group supports one another and is responsible for paying back the loans of their fellow group members if someone is delinquent or defaults.


"Nevertirees" Are A Growing & Powerful Demographic

In past blog postings I’ve commented on the appeal and the practical reality of never completely retiring in the traditional sense.  It is a growing trend and resources to help are flourishing. 

Marc Freedman, founder of a nonprofit called Civic Ventures, coined the phrase "encore careers" to describe these second (or even third) callings. Almost half (45%) of working adults ages 44 to 70 say they want to pursue an encore career in retirement, according to a study Civic Ventures conducted with the MetLife Foundation. Another 6% in the same age group, or 5.3 million people, are already doing so. Of those, most (70%) work in education, health care, and government agencies, and 60% put in 40 hours or more per week.
Whether you desire starting an encore career trying to fill a non-profit need that you care about, or of starting a business, or of taking on a part-time job at a company that excites you with what they do, check out this great website http://www.encore.org/ .  Their tagline is “Combine passion and purpose with a paycheck”.  Actually, a great credo for all of us!

Monday, November 15, 2010

Non-profit Of The Month: Sole Hope

This month’s non-profit is Sole Hope. We will be donating our monthly $250 to this organization.  My sister tipped me off to this organization which not only helps save lives of shoeless children of Africa, but teaches women a trade and business skills necessary to start a sustainable career and income.  More about  Sole Hope:

Asher Collie visited Ndola, Zambia, in the Spring of 2010 as a member of a mission team. She saw firsthand the poor condition of orphans’ and widows' feet because most were shoeless. Because they had no shoes they suffered intense foot wounds which were often infected by tapeworms and other diseases, robbing their bodies of the little nutrition that they had.  Asher felt a call to solve the effects of going shoeless.

Asher developed Sole Hope which does more than just put shoes on feet.  Sole Hope teaches women in Africa the basic technical skill of shoemaking and then helps them to build a sustainable business plan which can support their families with income.  The shoes made by these women are sold for donations ($25 for a pair of children’s shoes) and placed on the feet of kids in Africa.  The money paid for the shoes goes to purchase natural African resources used as raw materials and to paychecks for the women who made them. 

Learn more at www.solehope.com .

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

YOU Are Your Economy

In previous blog posts I’ve expressed hope that our economy’s recent difficulties might support a refocus of financial priorities, most of which I think would be good for our long term success, happiness, and capacity.

In previous blog posts I’ve mentioned how many of my clients are talking about how they want more realistic goals, how they want less complicated lives, how they want more financial security, and how they want “old fashioned” financial discipline and habits.  I cannot be the only one seeing this because check this out:

NEW YORK (CNNMoney.com) -- Americans have paid off nearly $1 trillion in debt over the past two years, according to a regional Federal Reserve report released Monday. Total consumer debt was $11.6 trillion as of Sept. 30; down 7.4%, or $922 billion, from the peak reached in the third quarter of 2008, according to the Federal Reserve Bank of New York. "If consumers can continue to repair their balance sheets, that bodes well for the sanity of the economy in the long term," said economist John Canally of LPL Financial.
If as a nation we want our companies and our governments to change their financial behaviors and fix their balance sheets, I am convinced that the best way to do that is to do it at home first.  If more responsible spending and use of credit begins in each household, it will not only become a part of our national consciousness but it will become the only acceptable model of a long term strategy.  You are what’s called a “leading indicator” because your behaviors predict what the economy and your government will be doing.
When we ran up our personal debts so did the companies we invest in and so did our government, as they are collective reflections of all of us.  So let’s see what happens when we reduce our total personal debts!  Anyway, $1trillion!  This is very big and very good news!

Monday, November 8, 2010

Spend Money and Time With Friends

Last Friday evening.  Dumping rain. Terrible traffic.  Everyone had a cold.  A group of friends met for dinner in Seattle after a long week.  Tired and irritated and arriving with heavy sighs, maybe some would have preferred soup, TV and an early bedtime. 

Jump ahead four hours and everyone was still there having lots of laughs, sharing funny stories and grumbling about having to leave and go home.

Such is the obvious reward and importance of friendships and interactions with people we care about and enjoy.  It can’t all be about work and it can’t all be about accumulation of things and it can’t all be about “getting things done”.  The regenerative effects of spending a Friday night with a group of friends was way more important and lasting.  In fact, I’d argue that spending money on nights and occasions like that is important and should be a part of your plan for life and your finances.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

How To Move Closer To Financial Happiness

If you aren’t quite to the point where you’d describe your financial situation as “happy”, or if you feel that your finances are creating a gap between how you live and how you want to live, where should you focus your first efforts at improving?  After 20 years of working with people on financial matters, here are my observations ranked in order of what you should do first.

Important Areas of Focus
Specific Action Step To Take
Breathing Easier
Stop spending more than you make.  Now!
Sleeping Sounder
Build up cash reserves.  Start small, if necessary.
Heart Beating More Regularly
Attack credit card debt with payoff plan.
Feeling More Optimistic
Sleep, eat well, exercise.
Smiling More
Make time with family the first priority.
Daydreaming More
Develop bucket list.
Having Better Dreams At Night
Tie plans for saving to your life-experience goals.
Feeling More Rewarded
Stop working at a job that doesn’t turn your crank and find one that does.
Feeling Like a Champion
Track saving plan and bucket-list successes.
Waking Up Excited
Be passionate and possessive with your day.
Sharing Your Happiness
Give, lead, coach, care, help, exemplify.


Tuesday, November 2, 2010

The Problem With Having A Job...

…is that for most people it is just a job.  I don’t think the problem is a fear of hard work.  In fact, I think most all of us want to demonstrate our strong work ethic and to derive value out of accomplishing things that are hard and challenging.  But when the expectations for hard work come from “above” for tasks and accomplishments that really don’t matter to us personally, I think the gap between our interest level and the pressure to perform as-if we care is the reason why people feel stressed in their jobs, and is the reason why most people yearn and pine for their 65th birthday!

I’ve had a job before and I didn’t like it.  I liked the company and I liked the people I worked with, but I didn’t subscribe to the importance of the mission that would have been required to feel “wowed” by going to the office every day.  So I left and started my own business.  It wasn’t easy and it wasn’t instantly a moment of joy and happiness, but I never went to work not caring about my own performance because I cared very deeply about the work I was doing (and still do).

One of my favorite current-day thinkers is Seth Godin (http://sethgodin.typepad.com/ ) who wrote this on his blog today:
The people who successfully start independent businesses do it because we have no real choice in the matter. The voice in our heads won't shut up until we discover if we're right, if we can do it, if we can make something happen. This is an art, our art, and to leave it bottled up is a crime.

If starting your own business doesn’t speak to your sense of passion, then find work that does.  Just because you work for someone else’s ownership doesn’t mean your work can’t be a passion.  And if you get to work and feel energized by what you do, then you truly have a career and not just a job!